Are there many people among your acquaintances who, on principle, do not use social networks - absolutely, completely? Ready to argue, they can be counted on the fingers of one hand. And you yourself? Is it easy for you to live at least a day without looking at Instagram, Facebook, VKontakte, Twitter? The personal world of each of us involuntarily turned out to be in the palm of our hand.

It is very easy to calculate a person’s addictions and “habitats” if he regularly publishes photos from restaurants, cinemas, exhibitions, numerous selfies, photos of his dinner, leisure impressions, quotes from publics, favorite songs, etc.

It is believed that a person who is active in social networks is also active in a living society. Without proving the correctness or fallacy of this statement (this is a topic for a completely different article), we will try to understand something else. The number of friends in the Facebook feed or Instagram followers affects not only our relationships with others, but also the stability of the home. Have you ever thought about it?

Benefits of social media in family relationships

1. If you and your soul mate were temporarily separated by insidious circumstances, you will mentally constantly thank the bright minds of mankind for a great invention. You are always in touch, and it's even practically free.

2. It is easier for you to form a common leisure. No need to puzzle over where to go together on the weekends. On the contrary - just have time to clean messages from invitations to a variety of events.

3. Many common (but non-binding) topics can unite you and your loved one in an instant. Funny Internet memes, pictures of the topic of the day are spreading over the network at the speed of light precisely because people are throwing “viral” content to each other in order to laugh together. And in the evening at dinner, it’s also fun to discuss the hits of the day.

but on the other hand

However, on this, the pluses smoothly turn into the opposite side of the coin. Researchers have shown that about 30% of people use smartphones and other gadgets to communicate with their loved ones on social networks - instead of calling and hearing their native voice. With a sense of inner shame, the author of these lines is forced to confess (since such a sharp social theme raised) that sometimes I find it easier to send an instant message on the network than to shout from one room to another. But these are flowers compared to how some couples manage to correspond while silently sitting at a table with laptops opposite each other during evening tea.

The lack of personal space within the family is a serious problem of our time.

To find out that a girl quarreled with her husband, it is enough to check the “Marital Status” column - many young ladies, in any conflict, sin by putting the mark “Single” or even “Actively searching” as if in retaliation. Or you can just as well scroll through a virtual wall on which quotes in the style of an offended girl (“Relying only on yourself is a great way to stop being disappointed in people”) will tell about the owner of the account more than a whole day of live communication with her.

In addition, the missus is unlikely to be pleased to learn about his wife's grievances from her VKontakte page. And given that information about the quarrel automatically becomes the property of a wide (very wide) public, this can play the role of a fuse from a bomb that will set fire to the main conflict.

Bringing rubbish out of the hut to the judgment of the whole world (without exaggeration) will obviously not be in favor of the reputation of your family.

Friendship requests from ex-lovers

Innocent message: "Hi, how are you?" from a person with whom you were once connected by Shakespearean passions, can cause jealousy and scandal. The person on the other side of the monitor might not have meant “nothing like that”, but in ordinary life it would hardly have occurred to him to purposefully look for you in order to personally ask how you are doing. And in the era of social networks - please. Light flirting that does not oblige anyone to anything, and the illusion that you and your ex-boyfriend have remained friends. Illusion.

To spare the feelings of a partner, some couples decide to exchange account passwords with each other. But this is an individual choice for everyone. If you above all honor the boundaries of personal space, then you should not. True, there are men who are ready to arrange daily interrogations on the topic of how you know that beefy brunette on a motorcycle that you recently became friends with and demand to re-read the girl’s personal correspondence. However, with pathological jealous people, we hope that you yourself are not on the same path.

And if you are uncontrollably jealous (to such an extent that you cannot refuse to secretly read correspondence and count the likes that your lover has given to other girls), it is better to consult a psychologist for advice. Because, no matter who you build relationships with, a man cannot simply disappear from the virtual society.

First love sometimes comes back

True, sometimes jealousy is justified. In social networks, it is interesting to find not only school friends, but also to see what happened to the first love - how it looks, whether a bald head or a belly appeared, whether he made a career, whom he married. Wow, curiosity is a terrible force! And if, after many years, people again begin to remember the quivering feelings of their youth, it is easy to get hooked and again feel like a schoolgirl or student with bending knees.

When you remember the whirlwind of emotions at the age of 16-18 - wow, my heart is pounding! What about at home? At home - gray everyday life. And you begin to doubt: what if you didn’t live all these years at all? And so - vegetated in anticipation until fate again pushes you against the first and only. And the fact that he is also married is a mistake of his youthful years or a marriage out of duty, out of necessity.

Against the backdrop of such an emotional outburst, people can do great stupid things, confusing passion and memories with real feelings, destroying families and getting only a candy wrapper from a candy called “love”, which you both savored and ate safely many years ago.

However, if your marriage is built on trust and mutual support, it is unlikely that you (or your soul mate) will want to experience such a temptation. Why do we need a piece of the past, if everything in the present is so good and harmonious?

Destructive statistics

And again about the sad: every third divorce in the world today is due to the notorious social networks, because the number of betrayals has tripled because of them. There are no barriers, the choice of partners for communication is a millionth. This is how dangerous games sometimes begin.

Sadly, when conducting sociological research, 80% of people admit that it is better to trust and talk about their innermost or painful things with online friends, rather than a husband or wife. Here is the ground for family conflicts.

According to the same statistics, every second inhabitant of the planet Earth already has an account in at least one social network. In 2015, the management of the VKontakte resource published the average daily traffic to the site - 43 million people. That is, a quarter of the population of Russia, Ukraine, Belarus and other CIS countries daily spends their free (and often working) time on social networks. When is it time to talk to family?

In order not to fall into the network of the epidemic of the XXI century, you can use the advice of psychologists. Just ask yourself two questions and answer them honestly:

2. How far am I willing to go with online strangers?

Your clear understanding of your own motives will help you avoid getting into an unpleasant situation.

Even if there are scandals, disagreements or banal fatigue from each other in your family now, do not rush into the pool with your head. Virtual communication creates the appearance that your opinion is valued, and you are understood perfectly, but this is just a parallel reality. After all, it was not without reason that you made the decision to share your life with the person with whom you live under the same roof - it means that communication with him inspired and motivated you. It remains to return these intimate conversations.

If you have already begun to communicate in social networks with your first love, sensibly evaluate your true motives. To satisfy simple curiosity (how life has developed), text communication is enough. But if you feel the desire to meet in person, it is worth considering: perhaps not everything is safe in your own family if you are looking for a replacement to get positive emotions. In this case, it is better to refuse the meeting and understand family problems. Together with half.

There are a huge number of ways to communicate with other people using social networks. But you shouldn't let your online life negatively impact your real life. A serious mistake in this case can cost you dearly. Here are a few things you definitely shouldn't do when you're on a social network.

Do not post photos of people without their permission

People are very picky when it comes to posting photos on social media. It's unlikely that you would want your friend or relative to post your photo without your permission, so why do the same for them? You may not think posting a photo is any big deal, but other people might disagree with you. So just ask permission before adding a photo and it will help you avoid disappointment and negative emotions from your loved ones.

Don't Use Social Media When You're Not in the Mood

Social media should never be used to belittle or insult other people, and posting rude and obnoxious comments is the first rule of bad taste. Not only because it might hurt someone, but also because it's how you hang your dirty laundry for all to see. Do you really want the whole world to know that your partner cheated on you? So it is better to use social networks as a means to spread positive emotions. Many people like to see holiday greetings or interesting articles filled with meaning. If you are upset and feel like posting something unpleasant online - put down your phone or tablet, move away from your computer and let off steam in some other way.

Don't leave messages impulsively

Naturally, you are on edge with your successful party, however, posting a photo with guests may not be best idea, as it may offend people you didn't invite. And if your friends might think that a picture of you drinking a beer from a bottle looks amazing, your future employer may think otherwise. Always think about what you post online. In ancient times, people wrote letters and their delivery took weeks or even months, so people sent only meaningful messages that they re-read before sending. Now people can send messages even when they are drunk. But once you leave your message online, it stays there forever. So before you hit the send button, think about the effect your message will have on your life and the lives of others.

Don't mistake social networking for real life

Communication in a social network is not the same as communication face to face or even talking on the phone. Human eyes are designed in such a way as to look into the eyes of the interlocutor. The first thing a newborn baby's brain is wired to do is find someone's eyes and make eye contact. Thus, communicating with someone in real life is much more useful than social networking. Yes, you can form relationships through social media, but there will come a time when you need a live connection. After all, you can't hold hands or hug a person through a computer. People don't realize the effect social media has on them. Do not forget that this is a virtual, not a real connection. In many ways, social media has made this world a better place, but a person still needs the touch of another person.

Pay attention to the impact social media has on you

Do you know how social networks affect your mood? Or why are you using them? These are important questions you need to ask yourself as it's so easy to waste time on social media. Half an hour quickly turns into an hour, and now you are already aware that it is already dawning outside the window. In most cases, people do not ask themselves the question: “Am I doing this for too long?”. So you should periodically check yourself: whether social networks help your life or harm it.

Don't view social media as bad

If a person spends too much time on social media, it can lead to an unhealthy addiction. But it is also unhealthy to scold social networks, to be afraid of them and to see them as exclusively evil. When a person develops a phobia of social networks and starts propaganda against them, this is already a serious problem. It hurts no less than dependence on them. In this life, everything should be in moderation, including social networks.

Don't share too much information

Social networks are public. This is not a secret page or your diary, so you should not share personal information with the world. Everyone should remember that there should not be too much information. Please note that you may hurt the feelings of your loved ones if you share too much. large quantity information. For example, if you post information that should remain between you and your romantic partner, or if you discuss your partner with family and friends where the partner can see it. Every relationship is different, so you should talk to your partner before posting any information about them online.

Don't lie

Lying in itself is a source of great problems, but if you lie on social networks, you will be exposed very quickly. For example, don't tell someone you're in one place, and then don't show in your messages that you're in a completely different place right now. You will definitely get caught.

Don't release important news prematurely

Maxim Bondar

According to the results of the coming year, the number of divorces due to the fault of Facebook and other popular Internet sites may reach 45-50%, and by 2020 social networks may become the main cause of divorces not only in America, but also in Europe

According to Gallup, one in three divorces last year involved a social network. This figure has been growing for the eighth year in a row - since the launch of the legendary Facebook resource. The more popular the creation of Mark Zuckerberg becomes, the more Americans file for divorce.

The current situation scares not only the creators of social networks, but also numerous fighters for a happy family life.

There are five main reasons after which family life flies downhill. First, many men and women do not advertise that they are married. They put the status single instead of married, do not post photos with the engaged person, add friends unknown to their wife (husband) as friends, and join dating groups.

Any of these facts infuriates the soulmate, who instantly begins to think about betrayal and his own inferiority. Suspicions, of course, gradually turn into jealousy.

So, a resident of South Dakota, El Jones, divorced his wife only because she added several friends in the gym as friends, and did not put on public display a single photo with Jones. The latter attacked his wife, shouting: "You are ashamed of me! I hate you!"

This couple lived together for 7 years and had four small children who survived the lawsuit and separation from their parents with great difficulty. In fact, the social network has broken the lives of six once happy people.

The second reason is flirting. A written comment or a compliment received instantly arouses suspicion.

Alaska resident Paula Hammers, for example, filed for divorce after reading her husband's comments to her former classmates. The woman was especially annoyed by the fact that her husband sent messages from a work computer, and he was constantly late from work, referring to employment.

The third reason is personal correspondence. It does not show up on users' pages, but husbands and wives find out about it when one of them forgets to "log out" or leaves cellular telephone unattended.

So, in only one state of Florida, more than a hundred marriages collapsed last year. Moreover, in all cases, divorce documents were filed within a week after the wedding. The initiators were, as a rule, wives. They were horrified when they read intimate correspondence, which turned out to be nothing more than virtual sex.

Some husbands tried to justify that they corresponded with other women before they met their current spouse. However, this did not help either. The women felt humiliated and insulted. Many were frightened by the "dirty fantasies" of the faithful and their promiscuous sex life.

Fourthly, many husbands and wives learn about the betrayals of the faithful thanks to anonymous messages. In California, for example, a prostitute is under investigation who, after having sex with clients, found them on social networks and began to write to their relatives.

The prosecutor's office does not know what to do with this schemer. On the one hand, she wrote the purest truth and even to some extent opened the eyes of deceived people. On the other hand, it contributed to the destruction of large happy families (the services of "moths" in the US are used by 20% of married men).

There are a lot of similar scammers on social networks. Sometimes they destroy families because of elementary envy and awareness of their own inferiority. Even if the information released by them is not true, tension arises in family relationships.

The fifth reason is the most significant and very rarely mentioned in the press. The fact is that social networks are interested in the maximum number clicks, so information about a person (photos, groups, friends, hobbies, comments, etc.) should be as accessible as possible.

A person should have the right to sit on the site not under his own name and use someone else's photo. He must have the right to completely hide information about himself.

In Texas, for example, there was a case recently when a man registered on a social network, and his page automatically reflected the pages of everyone whose email addresses were in his e-mail (received and sent). So he saw his own wife, who was "sitting" on the net not under her first and last name, but with her photograph. She used a fake account to correspond with lovers, but it surfaced thanks to a new feature on the resource.

The couple has already filed for divorce, and the woman convicted of treason plans to sue an online resource that, in her opinion, interferes with her personal life.

Social networks in America, it is worth noting, spend billions of dollars on litigation. Large teams of professional lawyers try to resolve all complaints before litigation and journalistic interference.

Such cases, as a rule, do not receive wide publicity.

"Social media is a very dangerous product," says Bill Ensday, leader of the movement to shut down such sites. "In fact, people's personal lives are on display. And if 15 years ago people could only send text messages to each other through social networks, now you can trace their whereabouts."

Ensday advises married people never to register on social networks. "A happy family life is a private family life," he repeats endlessly.

Many experts in the field of divorce take it upon themselves to argue that if there were no social networks, there would be no less divorces.

Every new hobby of most Americans was accompanied by divorces.

"AT different times sources of divorce in the United States were landline phones, dating columns in newspapers, mobile phones, cameras in mobile phones, video cameras, surveillance cameras and many other items, - says researcher Travis Lloyd. "Any invention that allowed long-distance communication or storing information was criticized for ruining marriages."

The Internet and social networks, as a result, only combined all the inventions, giving rise to a huge amount of uncontrolled pornography, virtual prostitution, the so-called "text sex" and much more that strengthen family relations does not contribute.

Consequently, popular Internet resources not only breed people, but also marry them. Moreover, there are much more weddings after meeting on Facebook and other sites than divorce proceedings.

The conclusion from all of the above is as follows: even being alone with oneself (that is, on a page on social networks that is as closed as possible from the outside world), a person should behave as if others are closely watching him.

First of all - relatives (husbands, wives, children). After all, as terrible statistics show, even the slightest stupidity can completely break the life of your entire family.

Social networks are gaining more and more power over modern relationships. And while some laugh off the phrases “what happened on Facebook remains on Facebook”, others believe that the manifestation of sympathy, albeit through virtual “likes”, is a real sign of treason. Is it worth the increased attention to the communication of the second half in the network? What are the signs of an impending problem? **Friendship with the "former"** A couple of clicks, and once lost contacts can be resumed again. Curiosity has not been canceled, but is it worth returning to the once-passed relationship? Trying to find out what happened to an ex may not be understood by your current partner. Think about what is more important to you: the past or the present? **Domination of virtual life over real life** The desire to "check your mail" can take away a good half of a family evening. And when you try to quickly see how many likes your last photo got, the thread of the conversation will easily go away. This video perfectly demonstrates that sometimes family members have to make really big efforts in order to return the attention of the household. Watch for yourself - when do you most often seek to get your phone? Why do you open a browser page even if you don't need internet? Maybe the computer is an attempt to avoid conflicts? If so, it's worth closing the laptop lid and honestly facing the problems. Even if this problem is addiction to gadgets.

**Revealing statuses** Even though Facebook often asks "What are you thinking about?", it's not necessary to reveal your whole soul online. Google remembers everything. It is also worth remembering that messages may well become public, despite the “private” settings. So, if there is a desire to discuss the last home skirmish with friends on social networks, it is better to do this in private correspondence. **Public Opinion** Previously, parents could judge everything and everything. Time has passed, but the habit remains. Why involve third parties in family conflicts remains a mystery. Relationships are not always smooth, and you need to learn to live through problems on your own. After all, negative experiences also make us mature. **Care for non-existent pets** Think about what makes up your virtual life today? How much time do you spend in front of a monitor screen just because you play, chat, relax and entertain yourself using your computer? Write down the number of hours that you spend on your "virtual" life and think about what you can do for your family and your relationships today. Virtual life creates many substitutions real relationship, but being behind the monitor screen only creates the illusion that there is not. **Flirting** Comments, "likes" under photos, random remarks in other people's conversations - over the past ten years, modern society has created many rules of virtual etiquette that are gradually being fixed. Worth adding or not strangers to your social networks? How do you get a “like” from a cute work colleague? As a flirtation or as a courtesy? In trying to define the line between what is acceptable and what is not, common sense will win. After all, flirting is still flirting. **Facebook is no substitute for communication** If you find yourself increasingly dealing with your day-to-day issues with your chat and social media partner, you should start worrying. If you live together and still don't find time to be together, then it's time to rethink your schedule. After all, you have made a lot of efforts in order to start your family. It's worth fighting for it.

In addition, networks have become one of the main sources of news in all spheres of life, be it politics, economics or culture. However, studies show that along with positive influence, there are also negative ones.

According to a study by British sociologists, the cause of about 45% of divorces in the world is due to social networks.
Thus, the leader in the anti-rating is facebook. If in 2011 the divorce rate due to virtual relationships was 33%, by the end of 2012 this figure had grown to 45%. According to respondents, the main reason for the indignation of spouses about infidelity is light senseless flirting when communicating with the opposite sex.
At the same time, the vast majority of users do not expose truthful information about their marital status which, ultimately, becomes an occasion for flirting. Probably, no one will be delighted with the case when the profile of your half comes out on the network, ready to “stir up” with someone, especially if this is the legal half, the parent of your offspring.
According to the respondents, the truth will always come out when every day the Autobot invites “you” to meet “friends of friends” online, which becomes the reason for revealing infidels to clean water.
Such depressing statistics of social networks in the world.

How are things in Uzbekistan?

Today, strengthening sacred family ties, educating young people in the spirit of respect for the thousand-year history and values of the Uzbek people, where the institutions of family and parenthood are the most respected and revered, are the main priorities of the state policy of the country.
Every year the Programs of the Cabinet of Ministers in this direction are adopted, in the implementation of which, in addition to state institutions, dozens of public organizations take part. In particular, it is the Republican scientific and practical center"Oila" ("Family"), the Women's Committee, the Mahalla Fund, the youth movement "Kamolot", the Forum of Socially Responsible Citizens and many others. The practical result of the measures taken was that over the past 5 years the number of divorces in Uzbekistan has decreased by more than 60%. According to the State Statistics Committee, their number in 2012 was about 18,000.
The situation is encouraging. After all, the numbers speak for themselves. At the same time, there is something to think about. And none of us, probably, will take risks for the sake of dubious online relationships, the peace and well-being of our family. That's how we were brought up.

Dzhigarkhanyan and Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya: divorce in Armenian.

Around the divorce of the People's Artist of the USSR Armen Dzhigarkhanyan and his wife Vitalina Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya, serious passions continue to flare up.
Recall that it all started on October 15, 2017, when at a meeting of the Dzhigarkhanyan Theater, his wife Vitalina told her colleagues that her husband Armen Dzhigarkhanyan had been kidnapped by his friends and taken away in an unknown direction. As it became known later, there was no kidnapping. Armen Borisovich at that time was in the theater, indoors. He had a seizure (the actor suffers from diabetes) and he contacted friends who came and took Dzhigarkhanyan to the hospital. After this incident, the people's artist no longer wants to see his wife and filed for divorce. The divorce proceedings began on November 9, 2017, where representatives of both parties spoke at the preliminary hearing, without the presence of the spouses. And on November 27, the marriage between Armen Dzhigarkhanyan and Vitalina Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya was officially annulled. But the passions around this famous couple do not subside to this day.
As Armen Borisovich himself repeatedly said in his interviews, his wife is “a thief - in two years family life she has mastered everything by cunning.” A criminal case has been initiated on this fact and an investigation is underway.

What owns the wife of Armen Dzhigarkhanyan.

According to the database of the state registration service, the young wife of Dzhigarkhanyan, Vitalina Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya, owns three apartments:
Three-room apartment (134.5 m2) on Molodogvardeiskaya street, next to the Kuntsevskaya metro station. The cadastral value is 30 million rubles. According to realtors, you can sell an apartment for 40-60 million rubles, given the renovation, the fact that the house is a new building, there is underground parking, two insulated balconies, a good location, near the metro. The extra charge can also be taken for stardom, since the housing belonged to Dzhigarkhanyan.
One-room (53 m2) in the village "Rublevskoe suburb" in the Krasnogorsk region. The cadastral value is 5 million rubles. According to realtors, it can cost 7 - 10 million rubles. (considering that this is a new building in an elite village).
An apartment (71.3 m2) in Krasnogorsk, where her parents live. But according to the documents

belongs to Vitalina. The cadastral value is 6 million rubles. According to realtors, it can cost 7.5 - 10 million rubles, since it is located almost next to Moscow, a new building.

Disagreements of the "spouses Dzhigarkhanyan": creative or financial.

As it turns out now, quarrels between spouses arose repeatedly. So last year, there was a conflict between the spouses over a play about Mary Stuart, which she wanted to stage at the Dzhigarkhanyan Theater, Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya, being the general director of the theater. Armen Borisovich refused to stage a production for his wife, explaining that the performance did not fit the theater repertoire. Ignoring the opinion of her husband, Vitalina nevertheless staged this performance, which made Armen Borisovich feel bad. A big quarrel broke out. Then a friend of Dzhigarkhanyan managed to smooth out their conflict and reconcile the spouses.

But alas, everything happened again this year, when Vitalina decided to stage the musical play Marina Tsvetaeva. Armen Borisovich, after watching the rehearsal, said: "I forbid the premiere." But Vitalina still released the performance, saying that they say that the money has been invested, it cannot be canceled. Then Armen Borisovich had a health crisis, he ended up in the hospital.
Armen Borisovich was always tolerant of financial issues, despite the fact that Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya repeatedly raised her salary and cut her husband's salary. the earnings of the director of the Dzhigarkhanyan Theater Vitalina Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya amounted to about 300 thousand rubles a month.
And yet, despite questions of a monetary nature, friends of Armen Borisovich believe that the main subject of the quarrel between the spouses was that she arbitrarily began to stage performances at the Dzhigarkhanyan Theater. For Armen Borisovich, the theater is like his child - he cares for him and, of course, it hurt him to see how she killed the theater with her tasteless productions.

Why did Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya flee the country?

Immediately after the divorce, Dzhigarkhanyan's ex-wife, Vitalina, left for Georgia. And then a variety of versions began to be put forward: that Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya was in a position and therefore left for Georgia, according to another version, she went to her lover who lives there, and another version, which also takes place - she is hiding from investigation.
As Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya herself stated, as soon as she returned to Russia: “It seemed to me that enough time had passed. I can feel at ease. I don’t want to upset anyone, but I returned for a long time, I missed it and returned. I didn't run from anyone. I just wanted to be away from the hustle and bustle, from this scandal that broke out.
In the next issue of the program “Let them talk”, dedicated to this issue, a doctor from Georgia took part, to whom Vitalina flew and said that there was no question of any pregnancy. According to him, Tsymbalyuk-Romanovskaya came to Georgia to improve her health, which was undermined as a result of the unfolding scandal.

Girls in stilettos, men in sneakers

While some girls are literally shoe-obsessed and most men can't figure it out, a survey by eDarling and Zalando found that their shoe tastes are very similar.

Serious dating site eDarling and online store Zalando polled 591 men and women and found out what to wear on dates and what to take to grandma's country house.

High heels - it doesn't get any better!

As you can see from the graph, both men and women adore high-heeled shoes, while patent leather shoes and shoes completely studded with sparkles trail at the tail of our hit parade.
The tastes of men and women do not differ much in the evaluation of shoes. For example, men like boots only slightly less than women.
Maybe you should invite your man for shopping next time?

“- The results of the study confirm the well-known fact about the attractiveness of shoes on high heels, as a symbol female attractiveness”, says eDarling psychologist Wiebke Neberich.

Socks and Sandals: Ladies Say No

The dream of women is a sports man, because the vast majority of ladies (81%) stated that perfect shoes for men, these are sneakers. Sandal lovers definitely lose to him. Only 15% of women dream of a chosen one in such shoes. The choice of espadrilles is not much better, only 20% of those surveyed approve of it. Sandals and loafers are in the middle of the list. The chances of impressing the ladies of their owners are 50/50.
According to the survey, the choice of shoes for men who want to please the ladies is an important step in preparing for a date. No need for flip flops - go in sneakers!

The actress was spotted walking with her lover and husband, Danny Moder, and married couple simply shone with happiness, illuminated on their faces.

Monday night Hollywood star Julia Roberts was seen with her husband, cameraman Danny Moder in New York; this is a rather rare phenomenon, since the actress rarely goes out in recent years, preferring to spend time with her family on her ranch in New Mexico. Apparently, on this day, the couple decided to arrange a romantic evening for themselves - in the company of her husband, Roberts went to watch a comedy musical on Broadway.

While watching the show, Julia and Danny, without letting go, held each other's hands, and looked insanely happy. On July 4, the couple is celebrating their 11th wedding anniversary, but it looks as if the lovers met a month ago - Danny carefully held his wife by the shoulders when they crossed the road, while the latter simply shone with happiness to spend several hours in the company of her beloved husband. The 45-year-old "Pretty Woman" looks simply superb, and may well give odds to any 25-year-old Hollywood starlet. After all, it is true what they say - the beauty of a woman is in her happiness.

Julia and Danny have three children, the youngest boy Henry is 6 years old. Once on the Oprah Winfrey Show, Roberts admitted that she was very happy with her current quiet life away from the hustle and bustle of Hollywood. The actress calls her ranch "Quiet, peaceful corner."
“I always say that it’s simply impossible to be in a bad mood there - I don’t know if it’s because of the state or the mountains, but negative emotions simply don’t arise there,” the star says about her family nest; “Everything is simple and clear there, and thoughts like “Why is all this happening to me?” never arise in my head. And the people there are kinder.”

The star also spoke about what prompted her to move away from Los Angeles. “In my city, I can go anywhere and anytime, which is impossible in LA. That city is a huge show business machine, a monster fed by people like me. I remember those times when it was enough just to put on nice blouse to the premiere - and now if you're a star and you don't look great 24 hours a day - you'll just be ridiculed. This life is not for me."

Apparently, the actress is simply tired of the hustle and bustle of the big city, of her bright starry life, and wants to retire to her family nest only with her closest and dearest people.

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