A year ago, the wedding anniversary of 30 years died down, and now, the holiday has come again - the thirty-first wedding anniversary, which is popularly called a sunny or swarthy wedding. We don’t know where this name came from, but we can assume that for many lives the married couple was able to maintain a warm, bright relationship.
From this moment, it seems as if an important milestone begins. family life when the happiness of the spouses is accompanied by the sun, their life together from that moment on becomes cloudless. And a sunny wedding is a great occasion to gather in a circle of close friends. But before organizing fun party, you should learn more about the traditions.
Traditions of a sunny (dark) wedding
The sun determines this year living together spouses. There is a lot of joy, warmth, grace in this symbol. This is how life has become by the time 31 years have passed since the wedding. The children must have become adults by that time and left the parental nest, which means that the husband and wife can enjoy life in each other's company.
The main tradition of this holiday is to spend this wedding day 31 years ago in the sun and be sure to eat pancakes, which personify it. But pancakes cannot be cut with a knife, but you need to eat them whole, rolled into a tube. The clothes of the spouses should also be in bright colors, where orange or yellow is present. The dress and suit can be of any color, the main thing is that there should be at least a little bit of sunny shades in the image.
Another tradition of this holiday is a change in the furnishings of the apartment. It is not necessary to start a grand renovation, you can just change the curtains or hang pictures on the walls. If possible, you can replace the old furniture with a new one.
Many couples doubt whether it is worth celebrating 31 years of marriage, but probably still worth it. In a few years, it will be possible to remember this event with warmth, looking through photos from the anniversaries of other weddings.
How to celebrate your 31st wedding anniversary
A leisurely walk through the park will give positive emotions, you can end this day with a romantic dinner in a cafe. Going to the warm sea in another city or country is also a good idea.
Anyone who wants to sit in the company of their loved ones can have a picnic in nature with them. Make barbecues, chat, swim in the river if the weather allows.
But if there is no such possibility, gatherings can be arranged at home. A beautifully decorated room with sun decorations and a table with delicious food will give a sense of celebration. At the same time, there should be a lot of yellow products on the table, such as oranges, bananas, melon slices, pineapples, etc. An excellent decoration holiday table there may be a melon on which the number 31 will be carved.
What to give for a sunny wedding
Although the date of the 31st wedding year is not an anniversary, spouses will still be pleased to receive gifts from friends, relatives and children. For a sunny wedding, it is customary to give something related to the symbolism of this date, but you can present yellow or gold-plated items.
Friends and relatives should think about what to give for a wedding to bring joy. The most common option is things related to everyday life - bed linen, bedspreads, decorative pillows, tablecloths, towels, plates and other things. It is good if the sun is drawn on these objects.
To the theme of the 31st anniversary, various chandelier lamps are the most suitable, table lamps, floor lamps. Decorative candles are also associated with radiance, so they are worth gifting. salt lamps will not only be a stylish decoration for the home, but will help improve health, because they improve indoor air.
An electric heater will also match the theme of the holiday and will definitely be needed in cold weather.
The perfect reminder of the 31st wedding anniversary will be sunglasses in various bright colors. Yellow flowers in pots will be a great room decoration and will bring positive energy.
Pictures of the luminary will take their place on the walls, and you can turn your attention to lightboxes or modular paintings that have become so fashionable lately. A mirror in a frame with rays of the sun will also look impressive.
To decorate the holiday of the spouses, you can give them something bright, memorable, let the 31st anniversary bring them many vivid emotions. A basket of juicy fruits such as oranges, lemons, apples will surely put you in a good mood. Another name for the anniversary is a swarthy wedding, so it’s worth giving chocolate figurines or just chocolates and bars.
Souvenirs from hot sunny countries, such as a colorful pareo or a Hawaiian shirt, will bring bright emotions. A collage of photos of the couple will remain in good memory.
Considering that in Everyday life it can be so difficult for us to get somewhere pleasant, where we can have a good time, we can give an invitation card to some cafe.
Children also give their parents gifts for a sunny wedding and it should be something joyful. Let it be, for example, a subscription to a solarium or spa. If the financial situation allows, then it is worth giving a tour for a few days to some warm country.
Parents can also be presented with a bio-fireplace, near which it will be pleasant to warm up on cold winter evenings.
Even if all this is not possible, they will certainly be pleased with the cake in the form of a bright sun.
Spouses should also give gifts to each other. A man traditionally gives jewelry, preferably yellow. There are whole sets, which include several items at once - earrings, chain, bracelet, rings. But you need to try and choose only high-quality jewelry. If it is difficult to choose jewelry, then you can give a beautiful jewelry box for them. Cosmetic bag - very practical gift, because a woman can put in it not only cosmetics, but also various little things. This attribute must be yellow or decorated with a pattern of the sun.
Chrysanthemums fit perfectly into the theme of the holiday, so a huge bouquet of chrysanthemums will please any woman. A gift in the form of a bracelet, a ring, a summer bag will also surely appeal to you.
The wife will also need to present a gift to her husband. Can be limited classic version and give cufflinks decorated with stones. If you want to bring something bright to ordinary everyday life, then organize a walk around the city in a limousine with visits to memorable places for your husband.
A wrist watch or bracelet made of yellow metal will be a reminder of this event whenever a man puts it on his hand. These products can be engraved with the name of the husband. Finally, any mug with an original notation, such as “ best husband in the world” or “To the coolest dad” will be a great bright and memorable gift.
Congratulations on your 31st wedding anniversary
For the celebration of the anniversary, it is important not only to present bright, memorable wedding gifts, but also to come up with a congratulation. Spouses can say a lot of kind words, but if it’s hard to come up with them, then use it already ready-made congratulations. Write them on a postcard or on big leaf papers and read or just send an SMS message, the heroes of the occasion will surely appreciate it, because everyone is pleased when good words are said about them.
SMS - congratulations
thirty one years as a song
They sounded interesting!
Happy Anniversary
to be wished for each other
Eternal devoted support,
An inspiration, no doubt
half a second
And a lucky star!
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In the sunny year we wish you health,
Success, good luck and happiness,
May your life be bright and long,
Let bad weather bypass.
We also want to wish you from the bottom of our hearts
More smiles and laughter
Live with each other in love
In harmony of swarthy color.
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31 years is not a little
This is a third of life together.
You saved love - this is the main thing,
God let you find each other.
From the sun tanned that date,
That you came to your house early today.
Let me remember everything that was once born,
What generously love has brought into your life.
Congratulations, my love, on your wedding -
You and I suddenly became swarthy.
Thirty years exactly yes plus a year,
We have grown together forever, my dear!
Let us be sunny, cozy,
Let our children and grandchildren come to us
And we invite friends along the way,
After all, our home is joy, comfort.
Solar wedding cheers and cheers!
Tell us "Bitter!", friends!
Despite and in spite of all obstacles,
We were able to save our union:
We rejected the ugliness with you,
Revealing the taste of forgiveness.
Understand how responsible
Our life of love and harmony
After all, generations take an example from us -
Our grandchildren are following our children.
Congratulations on a sunny wedding,
Take it, dear, take it!
I give you in our estate
Day after day the rays of the sun and May!
Darling, open your arms
Once again I'm coming to you!
I praise and congratulate you
I do not get tired, to evil fate.
We met, got married
Our house has become a full bowl - yes!
The laughter of children did not stop in him,
Let it be forever!
We are thirty one years old
Joint life, warm life
Leads friends with gifts
To our sun splashes!
I give recognition to my beloved husband
In love, in gratitude, in will
Live for so many years, live like in paradise,
With me, as with Eve, in expanse.
To love and forgive, hug, protect,
How happy I am to live with you!
Already thirty-one - and everything is like honey,
Light flows like a rich river.
It illuminates and warms us,
The light of joy, family bliss.
I want to pass it on to my children and grandchildren,
Even if it's not our anniversary.
My only, courageous, caring husband!
Congratulations on the 31st anniversary of our legal marriage, our extraordinary family life. When everyone around was getting divorced and complaining about their wives, you survived. I haven't heard a single bad word from you. On the contrary, from the first days of our meeting you spoiled me with tenderness, poetry, care. It seems that I live as if in a wonderful dream. I don't want to wake up at all. Thank you, I'm proud of you, I want to live to see the golden wedding and more!!!
For wife
Dear wife, congratulations
With our swarthy day, with our wedding day!
Let me hug you tight
Oh, how many years have we gotten older?
It seems like thirty-odd years?
I can't believe it, I'll be honest with you.
Keep the marriage vow
It was difficult for us, but interesting.
I am grateful to fate for this meeting,
I am grateful to you - for our years.
In our house it is sunny, carefree,
It always has good weather.
And now I only ask the guests,
Wish us not sweet - BITTER!
Dear wife, I will read the poems:
I congratulate you tenderly, saying
How proud I am and how I love you!
With the thirty-first year of marriage -
This is in reality, not in a dream,
As it sometimes seemed to me.
Here I wake up - let's start with you from the beginning,
Without offense and grief, only for good,
And I will erase the strife from my memory.
Happy anniversary to us
No embellishments!
Dear, dear friend and wife!
I confess my love for the umpteenth time
I was lucky for a long time you were given,
I remember our meeting as now.
Congratulations on the thirty-first wedding,
Have so many years already passed?
There are many photos - in profile and full face,
Our life with you is a bright movie.
I long for continuation - for many more years,
You and I have been given the green light in marriage.
The table is set, the guests are full,
You and I are destined
For many years to go together
Build a warm big house.
To give birth to beautiful children,
Raise them safely
Waiting for grandchildren
Everything began to come true.
Happy thirty-first anniversary
I congratulate my wife
I'm proud of her
I appreciate her!
Invisible wife! Let me tell you about the secret. Thirty-one years have passed since we got married and our first wedding took place. Is it a lot or a little for you and me? When everything is even and smooth - it seems a little, when it's bad, in contention and problems - it seems a lot.
Come on, dear, stick to the golden mean, take care of each other and please! Thank you for your great contribution to our family! You are beyond competition for me, and I hope that I justify most of your hopes. Happy wedding!
From parents
Our children, congratulations
Happy wedding anniversary to you.
We are proud and amazed
Here are words of love from us:
Be happy, healthy
Cheerful, always happy
Grateful and faithful
Be the pride of the family!
Here is our sunny gift
He is radiant and bright!
How lucky we are with my father
Congratulations to our daughter on the anniversary,
And not with a simple, but with a swarthy,
You are with a real man.
He is your fortress, hope,
We are grateful to him
That our daughter is helping,
And no why.
Live for another two decades
Before the wedding, already golden.
May you be all right
In the mind, in the soul, it's a day!
Accept kind words
From mother and father
We are your close friends
You enter your father's house.
We are happy for you now
You are just great
Lived thirty years with a vengeance,
Salted cucumbers.
They gave birth to grandchildren to our joy,
Let there be only sweetness
Well, now we will say BITTERLY,
We only count to ten.
Dear children, daughter and son!
We wish you a Happy Anniversary. We are immensely glad that you managed to build a strong house, create a cozy family hearth and enjoy life together. Thank you for remembering us, always attentive and kind. Long live love and warm shelter!
From children to parents
Your family is thirty-one!
Dad became gray-haired, not blond at all,
Mom is now nursing her grandchildren,
With them we wrote a verse for you:
Be, family, always healthy!
Swarthy wedding - funny years,
Waiting ahead of you is still Golden,
We take a walk with our great-grandchildren!
Today the father's house is flooded with the sun,
After all, we are celebrating our anniversary!
Thirty-one - although the number is not round,
But this date is so warm!..
You, mom and dad, are a strong family,
As an example to everyone, I put you, relatives, I!
I always ask God for one thing,
So that my father's house is full of happiness!
Sunny wedding with my relatives,
My parents have the most expensive!
I congratulate you! I love most of all
I am strong and friendly family!
Let there be health, let there be comfort,
There will be a dear home, where they are waiting for me!
Let the soul be filled with love
So you will reach the Golden one, slowly!
Once they swore allegiance to each other,
For thirty years and one year they have not stumbled!
Already have children and grandchildren
You have been married since that sunny day!
We, parents, do not give advice,
Since you already know everything with a vengeance! ..
We just want to see how happy together
Go on your family path!
Roses wither, only love remains ...
The sun will set, but in the morning it will dawn again ...
If you have chosen your path, prepare your heart,
To give at the altar one answer!
You parents then said "yes"
And thirty-one years have passed since then...
You created your family forever -
This is the best way to get married!
From friends
I am a faithful friend of your family,
Congratulations on your wedding anniversary today.
So many years have lived long and, as before, together,
And what a strong homestead they built!
The table is set to glory here - so much deliciousness,
As if thirty years ago - a super-magnificent holiday.
A sunny wedding is your feat,
Accept, friends, and our gift!
My sister, I want to congratulate
And admire again and again
How could you make it this way?
Save love through the years.
May your hearth be inextinguishable
It burns and warms everyone around.
Wife, always be beautiful
Always be courageous, husband!
I happened to be a witness
At your very first wedding!
No matter how hard you try, don't forget
What a gorgeous couple they were.
And now, thirty years later,
You shine again at the wedding.
What is the secret to longevity?
Such a family, what should one do?
Love, forgive and believe in God,
What will save and save
Do not want someone else's, do not measure,
And to know what is good together!
Continue in the same spirit
Be a husband and wife!
Today everyone put on a sunny outfit,
After all, this wedding shines brighter than the sun.
For the thirty-first time, the years are flying,
We congratulate you to the bottom!
We wish you new years together
And wonderful new holidays.
Grandchildren and great-grandchildren beloved,
Let them give youth and strength!
Dear spouses, friends,
We read the words of congratulations:
Longevity, light, goodness,
For many generations
That from you are born, and will continue
Your path, your glorious deeds.
Let them learn later
Ludovics will be much better.
Happy anniversary swarthy you,
Congratulations now!
Dear our friends!
We remember your tili-dough when the bride and groom sat next to each other and blushed at the word "Bitter".
A lot has passed since then - thirty years and another year.
The fire of love still shines in your eyes, you don’t even have to hide your eyes - your love has spread to children, grandchildren, relatives, friends.
Well, now let's shake the old days and remember "Bitter!"
Cool congratulations
Amazing nearby - these are our doves,
So many years together
Starting with the tili test,
We became really close.
Thirty years and one year
Divorce did not break the family.
Who kept and who kept
This island of happiness?
Congratulations doves,
We give a lot of kind words!
Like at a sunny wedding
We walked merrily
Danced and danced
To the music with songs.
The year went thirty-two
This couple is young.
So many years together
Let's sing a song!
And then we'll ask for a cake,
Let's say a couple of toasts
Let it be the other way around
There's no question here.
We are cool poems
They brought you to the wedding.
To you, beautiful spouses,
Here is the cure for fear.
After all, year after year,
There are a hundred wrinkles on the face!
Drink a remedy for fear
And enjoy each other.
The sun shines for everyone
Both outside and inside.
We are walking at the wedding
We light one, two, three.
Happy thirty first anniversary
Let's not stop congratulating
This is how a woman and a man
Everyone decided to dance.
Life on a grand scale - honey, wealth!
"Bitter" - time to kiss!
Three-story wedding cake
Very tasty - an important occasion!
Exactly thirty one years
Husband lives with one wife!
We read poetry to you
And we mow our eyes on the cake.
When we take a knife in our hands,
Let's cut the cake, have some tea, shall we?
Well, seriously,
Sorry for asking:
How do you do it?
So many years to fight for marriage?
It was bitter, it was sweet
It wasn't always smooth sailing
Honestly, it was even disgusting
But today everything is fine.
You endured, you carried the cross,
Withered, blossomed again.
Learned to live together
Do not grieve, forgive, love.
Be happy in the future
Even with the grandmother next to the grandfather.
SMS congratulations
Happiness, tenderness, health
On a radiant, sunny day.
Happy full-blooded anniversary
Congratulations dear ones!
Happy thirty first anniversary
Accept congratulations!
Go to the Canaries
Get tans there.
We want to say many words
Congratulatory solemn.
We wish you love
And good, of course!
Like in a short text message
Congratulations fit?
Happy Anniversary
Come visit us.
We warmly congratulate you
We embrace and wish
Continue to live, love, grow wiser,
Hand in hand getting old.
meant for each other
You are probably from birth.
Congratulations on your anniversary
And we want to continue!
Swarthy wedding - not everyone can do it:
Live soul to soul for years on end.
Be healthy, the Lord will help you,
Only with love and only forward!
We take an example from you, relatives!
Your couple is a paradox.
Both are different but together
Thirty years and one year!
Congratulations on your wedding day
We want an SMS
But we will visit
We'll bring you a gift!
Married couple with sunny experience
We will briefly sincerely say:
Let's do two more times ten
And we will order a gold wedding!
toasts
From husband
Beloved wife and dear guests,
To be honest, I don't like toast.
However, the occasion is important on this day,
I dared and drive away laziness,
Turn on the creative button and give us a toast
However, this toast is extremely simple:
For loyalty, for love and for family -
I thank God and fate!
From wife
I will briefly say in honor of our wedding,
One simple but very warm toast:
My love revolved around yours
And our secret is really simple.
Love and respect - without discussion!
Let's raise a glass, friends and family!
We are glad to see you and dance with you.
There is a wonderful reason - we have an anniversary
I want to toast you.
Before the solar wedding, my husband and I lived,
The sun warms us, but it can burn us.
Here wisdom is needed to be happy
In warmth and comfort, healthy in other words.
We raise the glass and empty it!
From parents
How lucky we are, our dear children,
Warm up again in the rays of your sunny wedding.
You happy and gentle, cheerful and kind
Congratulations on a wonderful homestead.
This toast is for love, mercy, joy,
This toast is for the instinct of procreation!
May love help you always and everywhere,
May good weather reign in your house!
How I want to remember this day - the wedding day of the sunny, thirty-first anniversary. We are afraid to speak in verse, but in rhythmic prose - to health!
So, we dedicate our toast to the union of our dear children - a long and faithful union, a union of joy and happiness! Let's raise our glasses together and drink for Love, Family and procreation!
Statuses for a swarthy wedding anniversary
- 1. We are at home, but both have become swarthy - together for 31 years.
- We accept congratulations on the 31st anniversary of marriage.
- We are going to go to the resort to celebrate 31 years of legal marriage.
- Are you weak - to live together for thirty years and one year?
- The sun has been shining for us for exactly thirty years and a year from above - such a swarthy wedding.
- Together they are happy, warmed by love, filled with gifts!
- Thirty-one years together is only a stage on the way to the golden jubilee.
- We are celebrating the thirty-first anniversary of our life together.
- We were overwhelmed with poems, congratulations were given - after all, the wedding day.
- Let the sun shine brighter, let everyone become warmer. We've been together for 31 years.
- Thirty years and another year have flown by, and we are still devoted to each other.
- Our joint happiness turned thirty-one years old!
- Come to our swarthy wedding with sunny smiles. We wait!
- We lived, lived and lived - until the solar wedding!
- Today everything shines with magic - we have a sunny 31st wedding anniversary!
Every year, couples have a great opportunity to celebrate their family's birthday.
No exception and wedding 31. This anniversary of living together is called sunny or swarthy. This definition symbolizes light and warmth in the relationship between husband and wife.
How to spend this sunny day?
To celebrate the 31st anniversary of the wedding, it is best to go to the shore of the reservoir. It can be either a small lake or an ocean coast.
It is advisable to discard all negative thoughts and completely immerse yourself in the atmosphere of relaxation. The best assistant to create a good mood will be the gentle sun, which will give you a powerful boost of energy for the whole next year.
If you do not have the opportunity to visit the beach, a swarthy wedding can take place on a picnic in the forest. Invite close friends, take a guitar and boldly go to barbecue. This pastime will also fuel your marriage with positive emotions.
But if this is problematic for you, don't worry. Arrange a romantic getaway at home. To do this, hang pictures on the walls with summer holidays, make a selection of interesting videos about the sea and plunge into warm memories.
In addition, a bouquet of white flowers must be in your house. It is a symbol of purity and trust in the family. Looking at these flowers, you will involuntarily remember the day that 31 years ago became the most joyful and bright for you.
What to give for a swarthy anniversary?
For 31 years from the date of marriage, it is customary for parents to give gifts associated with warmth. The ideal option would be a ticket to the sea. But if you do not have the opportunity to make such an expensive present, you can present a fireplace or a good heater.
Same wonderful gift will be a subscription to the sauna, spa-complex or solarium. Don't forget about a gorgeous bouquet for mom, and be sure to tell her how young and beautiful she is.
Spouses can present symbolic gifts to each other:
- A collage of joint photos.
- Beautiful postcard with poems.
- Snow white flowers.
But most the best present will become warm phrases and declarations of love. A swarthy wedding is a great opportunity to say all the kind words that you have accumulated over 31 years.
Surely, on weekdays you simply do not have enough time for sweet, intimate conversations. Try on this beautiful day to warm your loved one with the fire burning in your heart.
Men, compliment your darlings. What woman does not like to be spoiled with pleasant words?
No wonder the 31st wedding anniversary is called sunny. It is at this stage family relationships filled with a new, previously unknown light.
And if you correctly celebrate this day, then the next year will also be bright, sunny and unforgettable.
Author: Vera Fractional
Let what was dreamed come true
Everything that inspires you
For happiness to settle
In an expensive house now
So that you don't lose
Your happiness is random.
To trust each other
Drive away sadness-sadness!
On the day of the sunny wedding, we wish
On the day of the sunny wedding, we wishSo that life is sunny
So that it is not overshadowed
Clouds, winds and thunder.
For you to live comfortably
In such a joyful life,
Above you so that the clear sky
Happiness brought peace!
Thirty years and one
Thirty years and oneThere will be thirty one
You yourself know all this.
This date of your great love,
It doesn't count for years.
There was happiness and there were hardships
But you boldly stepped forward,
Because they loved each other
And they wanted to be together forever.
You are not twenty today, of course,
But you are still young at heart.
So live like before
Let the hearts beat in unison.
On a sunny wedding, we wish you only sunny days
On a sunny wedding, we wish you only sunny days, may clouds never rise on the horizon, and your life will be filled with light. Let the children do not forget to please you with their grandchildren, and the grandchildren with their achievements.A dark tan from the bright sun
A dark tan from the bright sunProud of the date of your anniversary.
Burning fiery from the heat of the hot
Love is a beauty. Pour the wine!
Like southern beaches, but with loud music,
Let life come off with fun ...
Let it not work always to have a snack,
But one warmth reigns in the soul!
Thirty-first sunny and swarthy anniversary
Thirty-first sunny and swarthy anniversary,We congratulate you heartily and sincerely,
Your union is now even more beautiful and stronger,
Happiness and understanding to you every day.
We wish you very good health, peace,
Good luck, cheerfulness, kindness, patience.
Life is sweet, like candy, like marshmallows,
So that there is no doubt in each other.
Years are given for love with love
Years are given for love with love,Happiness is a very rare, priceless ore.
Let the days run after days, the sun goes down,
And let your life be like a blooming garden!
The wedding is dear, a miracle is good.
The heart rests and the soul sings.
Sunny date, dark time,
Congratulations together, rest with a bang!
Today is a special, wonderful day
Today is a special, wonderful day,Today is the red day of the calendar,
Today is 31 years together
And these years have not been spent in vain.
Let your feelings only grow stronger
Let the sun shine on you alone
Let the colors of life not fade,
So that your union is not destroyed.
We wish you to walk through life
In love, harmony, kindness.
I'm not afraid to say no
Happiest couples on earth!
You've been married for thirty-one years
You've been married for thirty-one yearsToday is a special day - wedding date,
It's nice that they leaned towards each other,
How tenderly, as then - once ...
May your days be forever sunny
Not only outside the window - let them warm the soul,
May they be filled with joy
And they don’t dare to let sadness on the threshold.
Congratulations on the swarthy wedding -
Congratulations on the swarthy wedding -We are talking about your happiness.
Let it shine brighter than the sun
And you just keep them warm.
Love the way the sun loves -
Caressing delicate flowers...
After all, the years raced by as best they could.
But you are together - next to you!
And there is no happier date
She deserves to be bright.
It's nice to look at you now -
You are so beautiful... just like yesterday.
After three decades of living together and celebrated anniversaries, an unremarkable date comes - 31 years of marriage. It has two names, which, in principle, are similar to each other - a swarthy or sunny wedding.
Relationship psychology
People who have lived together for more than 30 years can rightly consider their couple strong and time-tested. In psychology, such a marriage is called "old." All difficult family crises are over, the children have grown up, worldly storms have passed, minor troubles have been forgotten, and for the couple there comes a moment when they are left alone with each other. It is during this period that there is finally time to enjoy your relationship. The preserved warmth of the relationship and love - such a marriage is called sunny.
Holiday symbolism
Like any wedding anniversary, the thirty-first has several meanings and symbols:
swarthy
This name is associated with a tan. After all, flaws, wrinkles and flaws are not visible on tanned skin - it is beautiful and perfect. So the married couple hardened and tanned: past quarrels and grievances are forgotten, and under a swarthy tan, the “wrinkles” of the past years are not visible. And if the couple was "green" on the wedding day, then during this time it has already turned into "dark".
Sun
Has several meanings:
To understand how significant the sun is, and, accordingly, this wedding anniversary, let's watch a short video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9TBcoT3rFEU
Number 31
Can be interpreted in different ways:
- In astrology, the number 31 is considered a reverse or mirror image of the number 13, which is why astrologers often refer to it as a mystery. Just as on the 31st day of each new month, the projection of the next one is laid, and in marriage: everything that is unfinished and unclear over thirty years of life will become the basis of subsequent relationships. Therefore, this year will be decisive for a married couple, and how the life of the family will develop in the future depends on it.
- In numerology, from the language of numbers, 31 is translated as the power of love.(“3” is love, and “1” is power). Such “active love” can be retained by spouses who have been able to endure so many insults and hardships together. At the same time, the word love means not only feelings, but also the ability to forgive, tolerance for shortcomings.
Rites and traditions
Since 31 years of marriage is not a round date and is celebrated very rarely, clear and traditionally established rituals have not yet developed. That is why the whole festival depends on the spouses themselves and it can be held in different ways:
- It is never superfluous to spend time just the two of you and talk heart to heart. Surely, over the years lived together, the spouses have something to say and remember: significant dates and events, unspoken words of love and gratitude - all this can make a holiday with a pleasant and bright atmosphere.
- Since the anniversary is not a jubilee, magnificent festivities will be completely inappropriate It is enough to spend this day with the closest people.
Closely related to the name of the solar wedding White flowers: it is believed that they are drawn to the sun and make future relationships just as warm and sparkling, become a symbol of a new breath. Therefore, they must be present on this day. A husband can present his wife with a bouquet of white roses, lilies or chrysanthemums. Or you can decorate a room for a celebration with small bouquets.
What to give "swarty anniversaries"
Despite the fact that a swarthy wedding is not an anniversary, no one canceled gifts on this day. Therefore, it is better to choose a present that will be closely connected with the symbols of the holiday:
- Spouses can please each other a trip to any sunny country. If the date falls on summer time, then this may be a ticket to a local holiday home or camp site.
- Good fit gifts symbolizing warmth and comfort. It can be a personalized set of a thermos and tea mugs, a heater or a fireplace, candles and candlesticks, bedding or a blanket in sunny shades (with sunflowers or daisies, as an option), pillows or blankets, a lamp or a floor lamp.
- In addition, it would be appropriate gifts engraved "31"- glasses, spoons, cups, medals and so on.
- In astrology, the stones of the Sun are considered chrysoprase, aventurine, hyacinth, ruby, heliodor and diamond, therefore, for a sunny wedding, you can give jewelry and souvenirs with these pebbles (for example, a ring for a wife, cufflinks for a husband).
- Spouses can exchange small engraved souvenirs. For example, a wife will give a keychain, a flash drive or a lighter (depending on his hobbies), and a husband will give a pendant with his favorite photo together. At the same time, it is better that they are sunny white or yellow (for example, gold or gilded).
How to celebrate
Let the 31st anniversary and not like that significant event, it's still worth noting. Pushing the magnificent celebrations into the background, you can safely arrange modest gatherings, it remains only to choose the appropriate option:
"On nature"
Since the main symbol of the holiday is the sun, on this day you need to go in search of it.: and it doesn't matter summer outside the window or winter. The main ingredients are kebabs, light snacks and a sunny mood. In summer you can go for a picnic in the forest or the nearest park, and in winter you can go skiing or just take a walk.
"Home warmth"
For those who prefer home comfort, a modest home holiday will do. To do this, you need to decorate the house in the spirit of the sun and warmth (for example, pictures with a view of the sea and the beach, curtains and curtains decorated with flowers and butterflies).
Cook your favorite dishes for each other and talk heart to heart. In order not to get bored, you can invite your closest friends or your children.
"Warming up the body"
Another option for a warm welcome to the holiday - this is a joint trip to the bathhouse or spa: here you can really warm up, relax and at the same time spend time with benefit. A hot steam room or a cedar barrel, warming or chocolate wraps, swimming in a pool or hot tubs - what could be better than joint procedures, especially since a drop of youth does not hurt in such years.
"By restaurants"
After more than thirty years of marriage couples very rarely the two of them get out of the house, so the day of a swarthy wedding is the most opportune moment. Pick up a small cozy cafe, perhaps the one with which you have some pleasant memories associated, and go there together. Light atmosphere, live music and warm communication - all that is needed on this day.
Choosing congratulations
As with any other holiday, for a swarthy wedding, you can and even need to congratulate the spouses on their anniversary. After all, every wedding date is important, and it’s always nice to hear warm words:
Poetry
In life, neither grief nor flour do not know -
Everything I wish from the bottom of my heart.
I wish you sun
To shine here and there.
So that every new day
Hit the target in love!
Happy Sunny Anniversary!
Live happily and happily
And do not let the evil cold.
And may the fire of love be holy
Lit before the wedding golden.
Let today not be a round date,
But it's too early in life to dot:
Looking at you we all hunt
After so many years, how doves coo.
Happy Anniversary!
Prose
No matter how the celebration in honor of the 31st anniversary of living together turns out: modest or on a grand scale, noisy or calm, the main thing is that the family that has passed hand in hand for so many years is worthy and obliged to celebrate all their dates every year. Even if they are not anniversary.